Thursday, June 24, 2010

You Know it is true love when..

How do you know if it is true love or not? At some point of time this thought may come to every individuals mind.
Let me share what i have experienced.

  1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated.
  2. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.
  3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.
  4. Sacrifice but not Compromise! Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes letting go your values or being untrue to yourself.
  5. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust, not physical attraction.
  6. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once?
  7. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.
  8. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. True love doesn't, its eternal.

Head to Toe ;)

There are so many people who say that the courtship period is wonderful. I am going through this blissful time of my life. Another awesome date...! It was at the 'Cleopatra Day Spa & Unisex Salon'.
We were at the spa by the noon and the lady at the reception welcomed us with a sweet smile. We had an appointment for the Head to Toe treatment which included Full body massage, Head massage, Facial,  Bleach, Manicure, Pedicure and Waxing. The ambiance with candles, flower petals, soft instrumental music and dim light was so romantic. We were upgraded to couple spa.. Don't know why we were just lucky :)
Two female masseuse came in for the massage. Their soft hands pampered our bodies and they gave us acupressure treatment as well. After half hour body massage with essential oil based in olive oil, we were left alone for a bath in jacuzzi. The jacuzzi was in circular shape and brightened the tub with various color lights. It was so sensuous but we tried to control our feelings as we had to move out quickly. Later we were given head massage. I almost fell asleep. It is so relaxing that all the tiredness was squissed out. We were given other day appointment so that we cud finish with the remaining treatment. I wasnt very happy with the manicure and facial but the waxing was done very quick and neatly. I would recommend every couple to have a couple spa treatment. It would be one of those memorable moments u will keep recalling.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

I miss you M

The stars lean down to kiss you,
And I lie awake I miss you,
Pour me a heavy dose of atmosphere.
Cause I'll doze off safe and soundly here,
I'll miss your arms around me,
I'll miss to cuddle around thee,
I'll send a postcard to you dear,
Cause I wish you were here.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Personality Traits according to Zodiac Sign

I have been a reading a lot of predictions about personality traits since long time. Finding that some of my traits are similar to the predictions, I started observing people. I don't rely much on forecasts. Although after observing for quite a long time I have understood that some personality traits of similar zodiacs do match.

I am so addicted to this now that every time I meet a new person I try and figure out which zodiac he must be belonging to or just ask them their Birth date. After knowing the correct zodiac I try and present myself. I have no intentions to hurt or deceive any one. I go through this process because I find it exciting to observe and predict.

Here is the list of the good & bad about each sign that I have been observing: